By now, most of my contacts knew that I've started a new shopping website for Mums, kids and babies. Smooch Me, selling quality handmade goods collected for all over the world. All these goods are made by stay at home mums either in their work rooms or basements, strictly no factory productions. Yanni, my best fren and myself are now also taking up sewing courses so that we can produce our own goods soon too!

I've decided to launch Smooch Me on the 1st December 2008. However I have started to invite family , friends and contacts to visit, browse and get familiarize with my site since 2 weeks ago. I thank all my online buddies for the warm welcome and start.

I've already started to receive reservations and a lot of enquiries on the site. Thanks again. I will try my best to update new items once every 2 months. Everything is so good so far, Alhamdullilah. And the support from hubby is unconditional too.

A week ago, I've received an email from 88db Service Portal ( 88DB.com Singapore is an online service portal. A guide to Singapore services where you can find car services, business opportunities, business services, food and entertainment, pet services and wedding services. A site where you can buy and sell products, find Singapore clubs, Singapore events, leisure activities, performing arts and schools in Singapore as well as promotions in Singapore. ) that they are giving me a slot of a free posting for my Smooch Me business ad. I swear i did not sign up for anything there. I contacted the person, and I agree for the posting. It's free anyway. I just thought that I was lucky.

But yesterday, another miracle happened. I received an email by ST701, a Singapore Press Holdings e-marketplace saying that they visited my site and they want me to take part in a 2 day event call " GaKids Kiddi Booti Sale "!! It's a family carnival held at GardenAsia. I was like "WOW!".. They are expecting a 2000 crowd for both days and the event will be advertise widely in the Straits Times.

I seriously didn't expect all these to happen but I really thank Allah for giving me all these task to do so I have something to fall on since I'm quitting Starhub soon.

People would ask why would i quit my full-time job which I could earn so well on. Well hubby is working there too, It's so hard to do our things together, and leave are just a pain in the ass to ask for. So once my bonuses are out, I'm out too and for now i just want to stabilize my webbies.

I reallly hope and wish for support from all of you. Thanks you and don't forget to visit - Smooch Me - Quality Handmade Smooches

What is it like to be neutral person?

To me, that definition of somebody being "neutral" is just plainly hypocritical. This "neutral" person is that type of person who sits back , relax and enjoys the soap opera. The type who just listens wait for the next exciting episode and keep mum. The person who knows both sides of the story and thinks that he or she is doing the right thing by being neutral.

Do we consider that a selfish act?

To me again, it is wrong to take sides too but sometimes we are concern on the affected person well-being. We sometimes "hint" on what's happening so that they should take the matters to rest and move on to that better step ahead. The right thing was to advise what was best. It's kinda no obligation advise. Take it or leave it - Right?

Back to me:

I grew up in many environments which was never my own. I believe that I should not bother of my surroundings and always pretend that nothing happened? All I had to care was me. I lived that way all my life. Family feuds happens everywhere I've been but since my last 26 yrs of living , I learn, what to share and what NOT to share.

I shall say that I never came with a magnificent 5-star family community. I had to trade places and people never fails to make me feel that I was borrowing their life too. I became solely independent at 17.

For almost 10 years now, I did not say anything about anyone. All I remembered talking about was how my life went and also talked about people who never stops poking me from everywhere. I prefer to make people think that I was in the dark and wants to remain unseen. I've always like to feel mysterious. hah. But at the same time, I tried my best to meet people's expectations. I never interfered, talked bad or even be rude to any elderly on any of their conversations. I would rather speak to kids.

I'm happily married now. I got a life which I called my own .And I've got the world greatest husband too. At first, people warned me that my husband is not what he seems. I doubted him at first but I also kept to my own beliefs. 4 years later, which is few months ago, we got happily married. He was never what people said he was and most importantly he adores me greatly. I chose my own path despite what people said.

I'm not the neutral person type. But I only speak if I think I need too. I only act when I have to.

Before you tell me what to do, you might want to stop your selfish act first. People make their own decisions, talked or blog what they like. Let them be and let people like us be.

Salam